If You Want To Be Accepted Don’t Be Defensive- Relationship.

You go into a relationship seeking acceptance. But you may not be accepted if you are always defensive in your interactions. Having a defensive behavior in a relationship is like wearing a skin of thorns, no partner would want to embarce you. Only a fool grasps a hot coal. No one goes into a relationship…

What Happens To Love After The Beginning?

A relationship begins when there is an acceptance, kept going by the acceptance of imperfections of both and ended when one refuses to put up anymore, with the excesses of the other. It is easy to give or receive the acceptance that signals the beginning of a relationship. At the beginning when no one stops…

Loving Is Life.

Why do the bright stars of love dim without warning? why do love grow old without aging? Or do lovers live so far apart, to notice that the bridge of togetherness is falling down? Maybe we are too absorbed in ourselves, to notice that there is always someone else, who is trying to flee the…

How To Stay Needed In Marriage.

Real marriage doesn’t begin on the wedding day, it begins when you can rise to the occasion when you are needed desperately. You are always valued and needed by your partner when you always give your time and love, and show understanding and patience when it’s not convenient for you. Yet you do so selflessly…

Do This When This Happens.

When were you fired from your job? Was it when you believed you were giving your best? And was it when you needed the job so much for the money and for the security? When were you told it was over? Was it when it seemed peaceful and comfortable? And probably, it was when you…

A Touch Of Intimacy- Relationships.

A relationship with a touch of intimacy a day, keeps misunderstanding at bay; everyday, keep your relationship, on top of your to-do list; getting intimate daily is important, a smile or a touch is magical; you have too many things to do, so no time to get flowers or drop a line or two, with…

Q: What If Your Ex Wants To Come Back?- Relationship.

What if your ex wants to come back? Find out; 1. Independently what your ex has been up to, who he has been with and why he is quitting to come back to you, 2. Your level of commitment to a new relationship, that is, if you are in a new one, 3. If you…

Alain de Botton’s 6 Lovely Gifts To Us- Relationship.

The world is full of crazy things that love alone can make meaningful. It is full of so many wounded hearts, hurting and searching for healing and the chance, to hit back but love alone can save us all. If we are helpless without love, then let us get help from love. Let us love…

Marriage, The Healer Of Old Wounds From The Family?- Relationship.

Many people today are scared of going into marriage because of ‘old wounds from the family’. They don’t want to go through the abuse all over again as adults but marriage could actually heal those old wounds. Linda and Charlie Bloom (Of Stronger at the Broken Places) tell how below. “Sometimes, the greatest lessons that…

Relationships & Questions, Secrets & Answers.

In a relationship, nobody wants to be lied to but nobody wants to be asked questions about well kept secrets. S6, if you want your relationship to grow and blossom, then you must understand that some questions are better left unanswered. Then what should you do about those questions which have been bothering you for…

Why It’s Necessary To Accept Your Partner’s Needs- Marriage.

In a relationship, you enjoy a complete attention from a happy partner. Your partner’s happiness is a product of a need, satisfied. But sometimes, in your desperation to satisfy your own pressing needs and achieve your personal happiness, you may regard your partner’s needs with contempt. The consequence of this act of of thoughtlessness, is…