An Extraordinary Approach: filling the gap in a gap year.

It is time to be realistic.This is a gap year, no one planned for it. An unforseen extraordinary thing occured to alter normal flow of things including trends and plans. The post pandemic disruption calls for a realistic review of plans and budgetsTo get something out of what is left of the year, you have…

Is It Okay To Have 101 Goals?

Having many goals doesn’t mean you should attempt to achieve all of them at the same time. Such attempt would put you under a lot of pressure for time to sit down, reassess your strategy and make it more effective. And the consequence could be much worse. You could lose focus on attending to daily…

Happiness Is Experienced And Not Achieved.

Before you take any decision, be patient enough to ascertain that an unattractive outcome would not cause a ‘depreciation’ in value, of your state of happiness. Every action you take should be done consciously to increase your level of happiness. This should be higher in value and in priority than every other consideration. Why? Does…

Parent-Child Conflict: 7 Reasons You Must Avoid It.- Parenting.

Parent-child conflict is real and has always been there. It’s a vicious cycle because victims often go on to become unintentional aggressors in future, usually, in the same family lineage. A parent-child conflict is the uncomfortable situation where parents hardly agree with their children on anything. It is a cause of serious emotional trauma for…

Great minds have purposes;…-Washington Irving

“Great minds have purposes; others have wishes.”-Washington Irving. Wishes are never horses, living without a purpose is living at your own risk, directionless and blindness are your wings, you never going to make it, across that dangerous valley to safety, so start living for a purpose, hard work makes wishes come true, set your goals…

Do You Have Those Maps?

Are you really serious about those goals? Then you seriously need those maps. You need those maps to know the right directions to take to get to your destinations. You must have those maps of self-control, determination and focus. Without those maps, your struggles are like taking shots in the dark. Without those maps, your…

Scenes of Dreams.

Call them 101 goals, I call them scenes of dreams; let them grab a hold of you and take over your whole being; if you can’t hit one mark, move on to the next task; and if you could get this right, you would have enough motivation to go back to the previous goal and…

Take Responsibility!

Blaming every failed attempt to get to the next level, on everybody and everything but yourself, is postponing your success and destroying the chance to uncover your best, so, learn to take responsibility for everything you do or fail to do, and begin the hard wotk of constructing the best road to reach your set…