It All Depends On You.

The elephant and the blind men, how you see the world is how your world is shaped; if you talk and act like an ass, don’t complain when you are taken for a ride, if you think you don’t matter, don’t complain when you’re dumped for someone less qualified; until you value yourself, no one…

An Extraordinary Approach: filling the gap in a gap year.

It is time to be realistic.This is a gap year, no one planned for it. An unforseen extraordinary thing occured to alter normal flow of things including trends and plans. The post pandemic disruption calls for a realistic review of plans and budgetsTo get something out of what is left of the year, you have…

Can Someone Make You Happy?

Today and tomorrow you won’t avoid meeting with people of all sorts while some are out to have your back some are out to make you feel bad, in the middle of the bad and the good know this truth; you are always alone, so you alone are responsible for making yourself happy, in and…

You Want An Enduring Love? Don’t Wear A Mask.

Most go into relationships with the fear of being their true selves. They hide behind masks of who they are not because they errorneously believe that relationships are not for human beings with imperfections. They are afraid that if they are known for who they are, they wouldn’t be loved for who they are. This…

William Shakespeare – There’s Small Choice In Rotten Apples.

The best apples taken, rotten apples forsaken, the latter are left for you? well you still have to choose; yea there is small choice in rotten apples, okay, choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea? A test that makes legends, the choice is between the rotten apples and ploughing the field, ploughing the…

What To Remember In Life.

Mistakes are repeated when lessons are not remebered. you want greatness? First be faithful in little matters; So before you conclude no one cares, remember people only care when they know how much you care. you want love to stay, remember with true love, everyone needs one another and everyone wants to stay. when life…

Why Is Joy Important In Life?

Build joy into your journey, the storm passes swiftly Over a heart that joy lives in; is trouble the sickness, joy is the healing, don’t join the multitude who are waiting and working for joy that is everywhere. Real joy is not in a distant goal, joy is the fire that keeps our intelligence aglow,…

Is It Impossible To Find True Love?

When love is found, a relationship is built to keep it. Although, it is the desire of most to keep true love, unfortunately only few keep it for a reasonable length of time, let’s say months. Fewer still can’t keep it beyond few days. Why is it so difficult to keep true love?It is because…

How It Ends.

Listen! Life rewards those who are not afraid to be wrong in order to be right. It is the end that is more important than the beginning. After the twists and the turns, we often ask, “How did it end?”

Learn To Paddle Your Own Canoe.

Napoleon Bonaparte said, “If you want something done, do it yourself”. If you never want to be disappointed in life, learn to paddle your canoe.