I Love My Abuser.

Lydia pushed herself away from her work table, got up and walked to window. Her office was on the fourteenth floor. As it should be expected at 5 p.m, wednesday evening, the traffic was beginning to build up in mainland street. Vehicles and pedestrians were in a mad rush to go home. “Go home toContinue reading “I Love My Abuser.”

My Husband Stares At Other Women – Should I be worried?

My husband and I have been married for over 20 years, but he keeps staring at ladies every time we go out together. And you are afraid he does worse when you are not there with him, right? This attitude is natural and it may mean nothing, because if it did mean anything, you wouldContinue reading “My Husband Stares At Other Women – Should I be worried?”

Why Does My Ex Want Me Back?

The Podcast of this article is on Spotify. At the beginning of the rains,A sigh of relief welcomes its blessings,Many days into the rains, overburdened by the wetness,We wish for the sun and it appears;The heat grows by the day and then becomes too intense to bear,We pray and long for the rainy days toContinue reading “Why Does My Ex Want Me Back?”

If you enjoy the fragrance of a rose, … – Isaac Hayes.

..you must accept the thorns which it bears. And if you have brought the rose home,it means you were pierced several times in the thorn bush,but still you brought the rose home; now you should be prepared to overlook moments that speak wordsthat hurt you beyond words and look forward to moments of deep remorse,Continue reading “If you enjoy the fragrance of a rose, … – Isaac Hayes.”

Is love a matter of practice?

Listen to the PODCAST of this post on Spotify, Amazon, google. Yea, it is. Because without practice, love can’t be given, received and felt. Love is perfection, remember? And it’s only through practice that we can perfect anything. In the words of Bruce Lee, Practice makes perfect. After a long time of practicing, our workContinue reading “Is love a matter of practice?”

Children learn more from what you are than what you teach. – W. E . B DuBois.

Father dear father, As a father, you want to be the best daddy any child could wish for,so you’re doing the best you could to give your children your deepest love, teaching them the right way to reach their dreamsand hoping they listen and practise your teachings; You teach them by talkng and by usingContinue reading “Children learn more from what you are than what you teach. – W. E . B DuBois.”

When you say, “I love you.”

Then love with all your heart,give with all your heart,wear the other’s shoes at all times,hear their unspoken needs and see their invisible tears when they cry insidebut cover the storm in their heart with a smile; Give flowers yes, give other giftsbut don’t make the giving of material things ‘a big deal’,the best andContinue reading “When you say, “I love you.””

There is always something left to love. ― Gabriel García Márquez.

Is the beauty gone?love never dies,look beyond the superficial,there’s always something left to love. Is the money with the fame lost?but true love can’t be bought,if it was true love,then there’s still something left to love. You want to walk away after the last fight?Why?True love endures all except threat to life,If it’s just aContinue reading “There is always something left to love. ― Gabriel García Márquez.”

Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread. – Ursula K. Le Guin.

For you who have seen love and believe that you’ve arrived,Think again, because like bread, love has to be remade all the time.You’ve to regularly find the timeto share the love you’ve found just to remind the other half,that though time has passed, the love you have is still young and new,though sometimes things goContinue reading “Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread. – Ursula K. Le Guin.”

How To Break The Trauma Bonding And Escape An Abusive Relationship.

The trauma, now and then comes back to haunt and torment you, Yet, you’re still bonding, still wrapping your arms around your tormentor in an abusive relationship, that has broken your spirits and your bones, You have the power to free yourself from occassional show of love and you can free yourself at any momentContinue reading “How To Break The Trauma Bonding And Escape An Abusive Relationship.”