There’s no room for confusion, doubting and guessing when a breakup is clearly spelt out in words. But when it is not clearly stated where his every action or inaction suggests that you are no longer wanted, you are thrown into confusion.
How would deal with a situation where your boyfriend suddenly changes without any reasons? No fight but the frequency of his calls to you drops and he starts giving you excuses to stop you from visiting. Then you get suspicious, pay him a surprise visit and meet him with another girl. You ask for an introduction and an explanation and, get nothing.
If after the incident, he stops calling completely, won’t answer your calls and won’t respond to any of your messages, you should understand that he doesn’t want you any more. Walk away! It’s not going to be easy but walk away.
The longer you stick around, the longer the period of heartbreak. The healing process begins the moment you walk away. The moment you tell yourself ‘it’s over’, is the moment your mind begins to draw a curtain on that episode.
Another reason you must walk away quickly is, hanging around means you are cheap and hopeless. But you are not cheap. Being rejected by one man doesn’t mean that someone better is not searching for someone like you to love and adore. So the earlier you walk away, the quicker you find a happier relationship with someone that truly appreciates you.
BREAKUPS: BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS GONE UGLY.
1. “I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.” – Haruki Murakami,
2. “How can I be reasonable? To me our love was everything and you were my whole life. It is not very pleasant to realize that to you it was only an episode.” – W. Somerset Maugham,
3. “I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I AM BETTER THAN THAT…Goodbye.” – Steve Maraboli,
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