Do you want to succeed so much? Then make failure your speciality.
Specialize in taking the risk to go beyond that circumference, that you are used to. Go beyond it, even at the risk of failure.
Brace yourself up for disappointments by knowing that disappointments reveal weaknesses.
Be willing to accept your weaknesses; the reasons for your failures. Be humble enough to ask questions and accept answers that strengthen you.
If you are afraid of failure, you wouldn’t go beyond that circumference and extend your reach, in order to find new possibilities. Without finding new possibilities to explore, there is no growth. And where growth is not possible, failure is real. So specialize in finding out why you fail when you fail in order to escape being written off as a failure, completely.