Meditate: train your heart to focus on just one thing at a time. Focus on the thing you desire the most. Focus on the pot that contains your other needs. When your heart is focused on the pot, you conserve precious energy and concentrate all your skills on distilling out, the best ways and the safest ways to get your pot of needs with a minimum of costs and losses. At all times, ensure that the benefits your efforts return are more than costs of assets invested. Although, this may not be achievable every time, however it pays to do all you can to consciously narrow costs and widen the attendant benefits. So, meditate daily and focus on how to get the pot. With the pot in your hand, getting others is like a kid picking flowers in the garden.