Human wants are insatiable, so you wish you could achieve all your goals but this is impossible. It is impossible, because something sometimes happens to stop you or someone else sometimes gets there before you do. And the person that gets there first, gets what you wish you could get and the winner who takes it all may be considered an enemy by you. Hi!, the winner is not your enemy. The winner would only go home, celebrate and go to sleep leaving you an ample opportunity to reevaluate, re-strategize and get better. So, when you lose and another wins, use that period of cessation of hostilities to plot a greater way to get back to winning ways.